_________, will you receive _____ as your lawfully wedded wife/husband? Will you share your life with her/him, hold your love firm, and dutifully care for her/him in all the varying circumstances of your life?
________, will you have _______ as your wife/husband, to live together in marriage? Will you love her/him, comfort her/him, and honor her/him, in sickness and in health, in sorrow and in joy, as long as you both shall live?
I, ________, choose you, ________, to be my wife/husband. I will respect you, care for you, and grow with you, through good times and hard times. As your friend, companion, and partner, giving the best that I can, to fulfill our lives together.